A sudden thought: go down to the store and buy your man some jewelry. It can be the one thing he never expected you to give him, because, really, what man would ever expect to receive jewelry? The question to ask is: why would he even want jewelry? The word brings up images of feminine desires, girly interests, and womanly pursuits; that is to say, jewelry is to female what cars are to male. Not even a self-respecting, politically-correct, well-bred, educated soul could deny that familiar stereotype. So might it be time for the average person to wise up to the limits of jewelry?

The purpose of jewelry is the same between sexes, as it is used to accentuate or to amplify the wearer’s wardrobe. It’s perfect for men as much as it is for women (although for the more casual-minded man, earrings and necklaces can generally be considered an acquired taste).

A recurring item concerns the ring. Some prefer to call it a band. In spite of preference, the two words describe a circular-shaped metal that slips onto the finger. All too frequent are the golden ones. Ladies, give your hus-bands a little something different. Either spice up the gold-colored “traditional” rings/bands, or give them up. For what some may perceive to be a cheap move, go for the stainless steel or tungsten bands; they at least look different and at the same time cost less than gold. The price a little too, well, small? Top it off with a diamond or two. Believe me, for what men generally like to wear, anything besides yellow can be considered to be more than a solid match.

And if your hus-band is the kind who favors a tuxedo or is a suit-wearing man, then cuff links and tie clips require little to no introduction. Unlike bands, either type of accessory comes in a variety of unique shapes. Don’t be so casual in selecting them. Decide on which of your man’s suit you wish to match, and custom pick each item for it. To give a gift that especially goes with a favorite suit can not only be a fun challenge, but it will also serve as a useful and long-lasting addition to the wardrobe.

Now to discuss a more topical, yet still casual, item: bracelets. Bracelets can be just as nuanced as a band or even a tie clip. Who can say that only women can wear them? Bracelets are like watches, only without the watch. And watches can look bulky or even distracting; whereas a bracelet will always be simple enough to accentuate just about any outfit. For those men with a watch they cannot let out of their sights, let them know that they have not one arm but two. A bracelet on the opposite wrist is a perfect compliment for that weary wearer of watches. Just be sure to have them fit snugly, lest it slide and rattle like the getup of a carnival psychic.

So thus, consider buying your man jewelry accessories. If he likes to play around with his wardrobe, admires a certain suit, or plain does not want to part with his collection, then jewelry is a certain bet to add to what he already wears.